I'm in Boston for approximately two more days. 48 hours left. It's incredible to think about. Last night, as I sat there in bed not being able to sleep (a special thank you to those construction workers outside my window...hearing your conversations and the noise of your equipment IS exactly what I wanted to fall asleep to!), I got to thinking about how absolutely insane this year has been. I have learned more this year than the past four years in my life combined. So, why not share my new found wisdom?
1. When in doubt, be yourself. You will make friends, even if you are a complete basketcase.
2. Try to find time for yourself at least once a week. A 5 minute walk with a good song and no thoughts does wonders.
3. There will always be someone out there that is smarter than you are. Accept it. Or you're in for a hell of a time.
4. Don't forget the people who have been there for you in the past. Always remember that and continue to be there for them, no matter the distance.
5. Always look both ways before crossing the road, even if it's a one-way. At least while in Massachusetts.
6. People do change. Good or bad, you can't keep them the same sometimes.
7. Don't overlook the people around you. Some are worth the second glance.
8. Have an open mind. To music. To ideas. To others around you.
9. The smile on someone's face after you have paid them a compliment when they feel like they have hit bottom is the most rewarding thing.
10. Donation of time, resources, and goods is worth the trouble of carrying 13 bags of heavy cans to the local food pantry.
11. Appreciation goes extremely far.
12. Always keep at least one foot on the ground while playing tennis. The courts tend to be concrete, which hurts a little when you land on your knees.
13. Don't trust too easily. However, don't keep a wall up.
14. Having a friend that tells you the truth all the time is refreshing and eye-opening. I strongly suggest this.
15. Ramen noodles can be a delicacy when mixed with certain ingredients.
16. Hold onto your family for support. They have to love you. And they will.
17. Accept the mistakes you've made in the past and acknowledge them. Knowing that I'm not perfect and that I don't have to be perfect has taken a lot of weight off of my shoulders.
18. Dustin Pedroia is the love of my life. No contest.
19. Don't kiss and tell. You may get made fun of your choices later on.
20. Putting a paper off until the night guarantees that it will get completed. Nothing encourages motivation like a time restraint and the fear of having to pay hundreds of dollars to go through the trouble of doing it all again.
21. Some people who are on the street begging for money truly do not need it. Don't give too much. But, in consideration of those who really need it, don't give too little.
22. Prioritize. Protect those you need to first. Those you should next. And those you want to last. Unless all of those can be found together.
23. Lyrics and music can heal. Or can make you hurt that much worse.
24. Some people actually do not mean what they say. They say things for your benefit. Though, little do they know, it really doesn't benefit you at all.
25. Texting after vodka does not lead to anything constructive or positive.
26. Buying books from the bookstore leads to debt.
27. Living in a city leads to debt.
28. Always find time in each day to laugh. It will make you feel so much better.
29. Don't hold your breath for someone you know you are better than. If your friends tell you to let go, they know better than you do. Listen to them.
30. Lady Gaga will always be a hot mess and you will always sing when she comes on. Love her or hate her, it doesn't matter.
31. Call your parents as much as possible. Let them know you love them, miss them, and wish you could see them more.
32. Stealing daffodils from the Museum of Fine Arts is actually ok to do. They will grow back.
33. So much can be seen through a camera lens that cannot be picked up by the naked eye.
34. The most romantic thing in the world is to watch the sunset over the city while having a conversation without having to tip-toe around your words.
35. Technology can be obnoxious.
36. Some people are truly kind. Don't question their motives.
1. When in doubt, be yourself. You will make friends, even if you are a complete basketcase.
2. Try to find time for yourself at least once a week. A 5 minute walk with a good song and no thoughts does wonders.
3. There will always be someone out there that is smarter than you are. Accept it. Or you're in for a hell of a time.
4. Don't forget the people who have been there for you in the past. Always remember that and continue to be there for them, no matter the distance.
5. Always look both ways before crossing the road, even if it's a one-way. At least while in Massachusetts.
6. People do change. Good or bad, you can't keep them the same sometimes.
7. Don't overlook the people around you. Some are worth the second glance.
8. Have an open mind. To music. To ideas. To others around you.
9. The smile on someone's face after you have paid them a compliment when they feel like they have hit bottom is the most rewarding thing.
10. Donation of time, resources, and goods is worth the trouble of carrying 13 bags of heavy cans to the local food pantry.
11. Appreciation goes extremely far.
12. Always keep at least one foot on the ground while playing tennis. The courts tend to be concrete, which hurts a little when you land on your knees.
13. Don't trust too easily. However, don't keep a wall up.
14. Having a friend that tells you the truth all the time is refreshing and eye-opening. I strongly suggest this.
15. Ramen noodles can be a delicacy when mixed with certain ingredients.
16. Hold onto your family for support. They have to love you. And they will.
17. Accept the mistakes you've made in the past and acknowledge them. Knowing that I'm not perfect and that I don't have to be perfect has taken a lot of weight off of my shoulders.
18. Dustin Pedroia is the love of my life. No contest.
19. Don't kiss and tell. You may get made fun of your choices later on.
20. Putting a paper off until the night guarantees that it will get completed. Nothing encourages motivation like a time restraint and the fear of having to pay hundreds of dollars to go through the trouble of doing it all again.
21. Some people who are on the street begging for money truly do not need it. Don't give too much. But, in consideration of those who really need it, don't give too little.
22. Prioritize. Protect those you need to first. Those you should next. And those you want to last. Unless all of those can be found together.
23. Lyrics and music can heal. Or can make you hurt that much worse.
24. Some people actually do not mean what they say. They say things for your benefit. Though, little do they know, it really doesn't benefit you at all.
25. Texting after vodka does not lead to anything constructive or positive.
26. Buying books from the bookstore leads to debt.
27. Living in a city leads to debt.
28. Always find time in each day to laugh. It will make you feel so much better.
29. Don't hold your breath for someone you know you are better than. If your friends tell you to let go, they know better than you do. Listen to them.
30. Lady Gaga will always be a hot mess and you will always sing when she comes on. Love her or hate her, it doesn't matter.
31. Call your parents as much as possible. Let them know you love them, miss them, and wish you could see them more.
32. Stealing daffodils from the Museum of Fine Arts is actually ok to do. They will grow back.
33. So much can be seen through a camera lens that cannot be picked up by the naked eye.
34. The most romantic thing in the world is to watch the sunset over the city while having a conversation without having to tip-toe around your words.
35. Technology can be obnoxious.
36. Some people are truly kind. Don't question their motives.
37. Always reread what you write. You may skip #37 and realize that although you are in medical school, you cannot count to 40.
38. Ask people what their story is. You will understand them so much more afterwards.
39. When you see someone that needs help, reach out, even if it takes time out of your day. Even if you don't want to. Take time to ask them if they need anything. They may say no. They may say yes. Either way, just asking will make a world of a difference. And they will repay you someday when you need it most.
40. There is still so much to learn in this world. Realize you don't know everything. You may feel like you are wiser than others. Or that you have experienced more than others have. But, it's not the experience. It's what you take out of it all and it's what you learn from it. And some people need to learn different things to feel accomplished. Putting yourself on a pedestal will get you no where.
38. Ask people what their story is. You will understand them so much more afterwards.
39. When you see someone that needs help, reach out, even if it takes time out of your day. Even if you don't want to. Take time to ask them if they need anything. They may say no. They may say yes. Either way, just asking will make a world of a difference. And they will repay you someday when you need it most.
40. There is still so much to learn in this world. Realize you don't know everything. You may feel like you are wiser than others. Or that you have experienced more than others have. But, it's not the experience. It's what you take out of it all and it's what you learn from it. And some people need to learn different things to feel accomplished. Putting yourself on a pedestal will get you no where.
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